While some students get to go home to spend the holidays with friends and family, expensive travel costs mean that international students often end up spending Christmas at their university or in their student accommodation. This can be a lonely time so it’s important to try and find a community to spend the holiday with.
Create a Holiday Family
Build friendships with students in the same boat as you. If there are some students who, like you, can’t go home for the holidays or don’t celebrate the festive season, you could create your own holiday family. Reach out to fellow students and make plans together for holidays like Christmas. This gathering doesn’t have to be restricted to traditional celebrations, you can share traditions from your own cultures or even create new traditions together. Establishing this support network not only helps with loneliness but also establishes lifelong friendships. Remember, the essence of the holiday is to celebrate togetherness.
Check out University Events
Many universities recognise the challenges international students face during the holiday season and organise events specifically for those staying on campus. These events often include festive meals, cultural exchanges, or movie nights. Participating in these activities provides a chance to meet new people and experience a unique version of Christmas. Additionally, organisations like International Students House (ISH) host special programs on Christmas Day, offering international students a warm and welcoming environment. These events usually include meals, entertainment, and a sense of community that makes students feel valued and included. Check your university’s event calendar or international student office for upcoming activities.
Look for Groups From Your Country
If you’re far from home, connecting with groups from your home country can provide a comforting sense of familiarity. Many universities and cities have cultural societies or national clubs where you can meet others who share your background. Organise or join events that celebrate the holidays in the style of your home country, complete with traditional food, music, and activities. This connection can ease the homesickness and provide a sense of identity and pride. Some groups even arrange trips or outings, which offer a great way to bond and share experiences. Celebrating with others who understand the emotional challenges of being away from family can turn a difficult time into one of unity and shared joy.
Volunteer and help local communities
Giving back to the community can be a fulfilling way to spend the holidays. Volunteering not only benefits those in need but also provides a sense of purpose and connection. During Christmas, many charities are short-staffed as regular volunteers take time off. Volunteering allows you to meet new people, develop new skills, and gain a deeper understanding of the local culture. Plus, the act of giving can be incredibly uplifting, helping to combat feelings of loneliness.
If you are interested in volunteering over the holidays, helping out at a food bank is a selfles act that can really make a positive impact.
Help Out a Food Bank
There are people in our communities who struggle to feed their families all year round, and Christmas in particular is a time when people feel the pinch. If you’re lucky enough to have plenty to eat already this year, why not donate some extra food or a few hours of your time? Both could make a big difference. Putting together a reverse advent calendar is also a great idea. Check out The Trussell Trust’s list of food banks to find one nearby you could help.
Good Gym
If you like exercising and sports this might be a great option for you. Good Gym brings people together to stay fit whilst doing something good in their community, whether it’s gardening at a community centre or repainting a retirement home. Click here to learn more about Good Gym. Not only does this provide an excellent workout, but it also allows you to meet like-minded individuals and make a real difference in the community.
Crisis at Christmas
Crisis, the national charity for the homeless, is running its annual campaign to make Christmas a reality for those without a roof over their heads. From helping with collections to cooking up a mean Christmas feast, or even throwing a party, there are tons of ways to get involved! This hands-on involvement provides a sense of fulfilment and offers a glimpse into the lives of others. Check Crisis’s website to find opportunities in your area and discover how you can contribute to making Christmas brighter for someone in need.
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